Thursday, January 19, 2012

Trip to Bentonville - adventures with ABCDE, November 11-13, 2011

Reason number 1,285 that we love living in Little Rock = we live closer to ABCDE. We hate not being close to our Texas family, but at least we still have family to visit on a weekend! Nathan has never EVER visited his brother’s home (I’ve been there several times), so we were due to for a trip to Bentonville to visit Andrea, Brandon, Caden, Dru and Eston (ABCDE). We loaded up the kids after work on Friday and had a good and easy drive. We were so excited to get away for the weekend and Alex was over the moon about getting to hang with her cousins.
As we hoped and expected, it was fantastic time! The kids were in heaven playing together. It was really nice for us because the kids were amazing with Carson and we didn’t have to step in much. Caden, Dru and Eston are unreal with Carson – they are the experts! A few highlights from the weekend:
1. Nathan finally “experienced” ABCDE’s home (it’s beyond incredible – wow!)
2. Darby cousins played outside for hours.
3. All the kids are gluten free so the cooking was easy.
4. Andrea and I were able to sneak away for a girl’s night out – dinner at PF Changs and shopping. We shut down the restaurant catching up!
5. The guys were able to watch the Razorback football game in B’s media room.
6. We got to visit their church – Fellowship in Bentonville. The sermon was on “healing.” I was a mess because it hit home with Carson but was very encouraging – loved it!
7. We got to experience “Mellow Mushroom” – auhhhmazing food!
8. We were even able to squeeze in a surprise photo shoot of the kids. Andrea is such a talented photog – score! We kept this a secret in hopes of surprising the Grandparents with pics.

The pictures can tell the rest of the story. I am so blessed to have such a fun and loving sister (Aunt Onnie to my kids) and Nathan loved hanging with his brother. The kids weren’t ready to leave…in fact the oldest Darby kiddo, Caden, said, “This was one of the best weekends I’ve had in a really long time.” That speaks volumes b/c the kids are all younger, yet he still had a blast. I love these boys with all my heart. Okay, okay I’ll stop – here are the pics from our weekend!

 

Happy, happy boy!
Did I mention he is always happy?
Dru - the Carson whisperer
Nathan is having a blast with our "twins"
Sweet Carson gives us a cute face
Our kids loved the backyard and played so well together
Funny, funny brothers made fun of our excessive picture taking...here are a few examples :)
Example :)
Um yep, example :)
Okay, I *think* maybe they are trying to behave and take a real pic
Ummm nope, absolutely not!  Really boys?!?
Okay, thank you for finally cooperating!
Eston, Dru & Caden (gorgeous, amazing, men of Christ...yes, they are little men!)
Alex & Onnie hammed it up for a few pics
Sweet lovin'
These have to be my favorite - love it!!
Goofy girls
I think this is a magical pic...because Onnie & Carson have magic together...and you can tell.
More magic
Aunt Missy even gets a few pics in with her stud nephews
These boys fill my tank!!
Onnie has a blast with my kids on the playground
Okay, so perhaps I spoke to soon...this one is my favorite.  GORGEOUS!

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Saving the best for last - here are the photoshoot pics at the deserted railroad/factory:




If Gymboree is looking for a few models, I might know where to find them!









Aren't the kids precious?  I can't stand it - ridiculously blessed!




My sweet girl is growing up - she looks sooo big here!

Thank you, ABCDE for an awesome weekend!  Can we come back now?

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Deep thoughts

I loved my morning devotional...hopefully someone will read and be encouraged as I was:

"Let me prepare you for the day that stretches out before you.  I know exactly what this day will contain, whereas you only vague ideas about it. You would like to see a map, showing all the twists and turns of your journey. You'd feel more prepared if you could somehow visualize what is on the road ahead.  However, there is a better way to be prepared for whatever you will encounter today: Spend quality time with Me.

I will not show you what is on the road ahead but I will thoroughly equip you for the journey.  My living Presence is your Companion each step of the way.  Stay in continual communication with Me, whispering My Name whenever you need to redirect your thoughts.  Thus, you can walk through this day with your focus on Me.  My abiding Presence is the best road map available."

Exodus 33:14, John 15: 4-7

Those of you that know me well have heard me say (more than once) - I just wish I had a map to navigate this journey with Carson.  Thanks for the reminder, Daddy!

Friday, December 16, 2011

Merry Christmas from the Darby Family

 
Merry Christmas from the Darby Family.  Christmas card, 2011

Monday, December 12, 2011

Our first snow in Little Rock

We experienced our first snow in Little Rock and wow, it was gorgeous! It was the "perfect snow" because there was just enough snow to cover everything, but the roads were clear. Sparing you all of my cheesy Hallmark sayings, I'll just leave it at this. As I drove to and from taking the kids to school, I talked to God. And He talked to me. I kept pulling over to take pictures...it was a beautiful, spiritual morning for me. And in that time, I was reminded that in just one night God can change everything. One snow reminded me that seasons come and go, that times changes and no matter where we are in our life, time continues to move forward. And that, it a beautiful thing.

Speaking of beautiful:

Our front porch

Backyard
View from our porch
Our yard
Our home

Golf course

Pleasant Valley

The park

The street sign I pass every morning
Look at all the snow - gorgeous!

Street view
Beautiful trees

Santa's beautiful little helper

Alex has been so excited to have her picture taken with Freddy the Elf at her elementary school. We talked about it a few times and I marked my calendar to make sure she was dressed appropriately for the "big event."

Alex has an adorable Santa dress and she chose to wear it for her pictures with Freddy. I got her all dressed up and we took pictures by the Christmas tree. It was a warm and fuzzy moment. Nathan's precious comment to me was, "Are you sure you want her to wear that Santa dress? Kids might make fun of her." And I said, "She is adorable and she chose it."

We all went about our days as usual...and then at about 2:30 I get a reminder on my calendar that says "ELF PICTURES TOMORROW AT ALEX'S SCHOOL." OH NO!!!!!!
I was laughing hysterically at myself for being an idiot and worried about Alex all at the same time. I wasn't sure what her response was going to be getting off the bus. With Alex, it's black or white..no gray. I was dreading pick-up and grabbed my Barbie Christmas DVD I had in my super secret stash spot for an occasion such as this. Sure enough...the bus pulled up and Alex comes off the bus crying. I feel like the worst.mom.ever.

Fortunately, she just got her conduct card pulled for talking during reading time. It took me a few minutes to get through drama, but I was so relieved I wasn't in trouble. Once things settled down a bit I asked, "So, did you take pictures with Freddy the Elf today?" She said, "Oh yeah - Mom, the pictures are tomorrow you silly! But guess what? I got lots of compliments on my dress so I think I'll just wear it again tomorrow." WHEW!

I told DeDe about the incident and being the magic elf she is, she went home and made a special Christmas shirt for Alex to wear to school the next day. Who can just crank out a home made Christmas shirt in a day? Seriously, she's too much!

Alex didn't have to wear her dress two days in a row...and I am not the worst mom ever (yet). Here are the adorable pictures from day one...and day two :)

Day 1 - Santa dress

She is such a beauty (inside and out)




Day 2 - DeDe's Christmas shirt

All ready to go!


Alex actually believes that Criddle, her elf at home, went back to Santa's workshop that night and told Santa about the dress...and she thinks she earned "extra Christmas spirit credit" for dressing up two days in a row.

Riiiiight :)